Everyone has sabotaged love at some point, often without realizing it. Sometimes it’s out of fear of commitment, other times due to insecurity, or repeating old patterns. But does your star chart have anything to do with it? The answer is: absolutely! The Zodiac doesn’t lie when it comes to self-sabotage in love.
So, next, discover what your star chart reveals about how you sabotage love.
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How You Sabotage Love
Sun: Your Identity
Your Sun sign represents your most visible “self.” In some situations, it can cause you to act in ways that push love away.
Aries: wants everything immediately and ends up rushing, ignoring others’ pace.
Taurus: so afraid of change that they get stuck in stagnant relationships.
Gemini: loves variety and may run when things get serious.
Cancer: gives so much it scares others, then expects repayment.
Leo: needs so much attention that they forget to focus on the other person.
Virgo: wants everything to be perfect, which can become boring and overly critical.
Libra: fears conflict and avoids important conversations.
Scorpio: feels everything intensely, becoming possessive and suspicious.
Sagittarius: runs from commitment at the first chance.
Capricorn: prioritizes work over love, becoming emotionally distant.
Aquarius: values freedom so much that they seem indifferent.
Pisces: idealizes too much and ends up disappointed.
Moon: Do Your Emotions Sabotage You?
The Moon’s position in your chart reveals how you feel, react, and protect yourself emotionally. If it’s in more closed signs like Capricorn or Scorpio, you may struggle to express your feelings. If it’s in sensitive signs like Pisces or Cancer, you might get hurt easily and close off out of fear of being hurt again.
Venus: How You Sabotage Yourself in Love
Venus, the goddess of love, shows how you love and what you seek in relationships. It also reveals how you sabotage yourself.
Aries: jumps in too quickly and then loses interest.
Taurus: holds on to what should be let go.
Gemini: changes crushes like changing clothes.
Cancer: loves too much, even without getting the same in return.
Leo: needs constant flattery.
Virgo: analyzes so much they forget to feel.
Libra: seeks balance so much that they end up losing themselves.
Scorpio: is so intense it becomes an obsession.
Sagittarius: loves freedom more than any person.
Capricorn: loves responsibly but without lightness.
Aquarius: thinks showing affection is a weakness.
Pisces: loves those who aren’t emotionally available.
How to Stop Sabotaging Yourself
Now that you understand the signs in your chart, use this self-knowledge to your advantage. That means, first of all, accepting that you have patterns — but also choices. Astrology doesn’t determine everything, but it can be a powerful ally in changing your path.
So, the next time you feel like you’re sabotaging love, stop, breathe, and remember: you can choose to do things differently.